Phoebe (phoebexeper) wrote in fungshway,

Hi everyone, I'm new in this forum but have read through it and haven't found any answer to the problem I have. Maybe one of you can help me, my question concerns clutter - or what I consider clutter. My problem is acually stressing a relationship.

I live with my boyfriend and our three month old baby. We have recently bought our first home and I am finding this time appropriate to throw out a lot of things that we don't need. Things that aren't important enough for me to move, and that I don't really want in our new home.
Trouble is, I am finding it hard not to get rid of things that aren't mine. I get into a cleaning mood and really want to get rid of my boyfriend's old things - his ornaments and old books and things he has had since he was a teenager. I have told him this but most of it he does want to keep, even if I feel he wouldn't miss it if it was gone.

How can I deal with the things in my own house that cause me tension because I don't want them there. I am uncomfortable with just locking things away in a cupboard, as this is hardly good from a feng shui perspective. It has been to the point of me secretly throwing things out before...
Please help!
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